Episode Summary:
In this deeply personal episode, we finally share the story we’ve been alluding to over the past several episodes—our journey of recovery after betrayal. We open up about the hardest season of our marriage, the process we went through to heal, and what we learned along the way. This conversation isn’t about assigning blame or telling "our side" of the story; it’s about sharing the truth of what it took to rebuild trust, grow individually, and create a stronger, healthier marriage. If infidelity or betrayal is part of your story, please listen with care. This episode may bring up strong emotions, so take it at your own pace.
What We Cover in This Episode:
The timeline of our betrayal and recovery process
Understanding discovery day and the impact of drip disclosure
The painful but necessary process of full therapeutic disclosure
The role of truth and transparency in rebuilding trust
Why safety is the first step in recovery
The importance of accountability and consistent effort
How we navigated minimizing, gaslighting, and self-protection
How our healing journey led to post-traumatic growth
The pivotal moment that changed everything
What life looks like now on the other side of healing
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
Dr. Jake Porter – Betrayal Trauma Resources
Dr. Andrew Bauman – Interview on Episode 6
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Final Thoughts:
This episode is raw, vulnerable, and filled with hard-earned wisdom. Recovery is possible, but it requires deep work, commitment, and a willingness to face the truth. If you’re on this journey, you’re not alone. Healing takes time, but there is hope. Thank you for being here with us.
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